The Law of Control

The Law of Control
Introduction

The Law of Control states that you will feel positive, have high self esteem and feel good about yourself, to the exact degree you feel in control of your own life. A person with low self-esteem allows others to control them, their lives and their decisions and they never face up to their personal responsibility to direct their own life.

They are victims and allow others to control them. They blame, complain and explain their misfortune belongs to someone or something else other than themselves. They tend to be continually negative in their outlook on life. They have a perverse way of turning every positive situation into a very negative one – in other words, they look for the thorns in a bunch of roses.

People who live by the Law of Control are positive. They accept personal responsibility for each and every situation, both good and bad and create their own circumstances. These people will never accept that they are the victims of something that someone else has done to them.

These people are responsible for the decisions they make for themselves and blame no one or nothing for the consequences but themselves. People like this are aware of and explore all the options, which is the key to being in control.

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Harnessing the Power of the Law of Control

The Law of Control is about one simple but life-changing truth: the more you feel in control of your life, the happier and more fulfilled you will be. On the other hand, the less control you believe you have, the more frustrated, stressed, and powerless you’ll feel.

The good news? You always have more control than you think—you just need to learn where to focus your energy.

What Can You Control?

It’s easy to feel overwhelmed in a world full of uncertainty. But the key to harnessing the power of the law of control is understanding the difference between what you can control and what you can’t.

Here’s a quick guide:

“True freedom comes when you stop worrying about the things you cannot control and start focusing on what you can.”

Reclaiming Your Power

Once you recognize what you can influence, you take back your personal power. This is the secret of the law of control—taking ownership of your life, one thought and action at a time.

Here are some practical ways to put this law into action:

1. Control Your Mindset
   Start with your thoughts. Replace self-doubt or worry with empowering beliefs. Say to yourself:“I am in control of how I respond to challenges.”“I choose peace over stress.”“I focus my energy on solutions, not problems.”
2. Focus on Actions, Not Outcomes
   You can’t control every outcome, but you can control what you do. Take action toward your goals, no matter how small.
3. Set Boundaries
   Don’t let others dictate your emotions or energy. If someone drains you, step back. If a situation overwhelms you, take a break.
4. Let Go of What’s Outside Your Control
   This can be the hardest step but also the most freeing. You can’t control other people’s opinions or actions, so stop trying. Your time and energy are better spent on what truly matters to you.

The Magic of Letting Go

When you shift your focus to the things you can control, something magical happens: stress and anxiety fade, and confidence and clarity grow.

“You may not control the storm, but you can control how you sail through it.”

Take Back Your Power

Harnessing the law of control doesn’t mean ignoring life’s challenges—it means deciding how you’ll respond to them. It’s about understanding that while you may not always control what happens to you, you always control your thoughts, actions, and choices.

When you embrace this truth, life no longer feels like something happening to you. It becomes something you’re actively creating.

Focus on what you can control, and watch your life transform.

If you want success and happiness, then you really need to take full control of your life. By accepting personal responsibility for everything that has happened, or that will happen, in your life, you will gain control. If there is something that you don’t like, change it. Do not allow yourself to slip into the victim mode and above all, never forget that you always have options. Choose wisely.

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